Sunday, May 5, 2013

Another week is over, highlight of the week is Iron Man 3 with Samy! Importance of Being Earnest on May 2!!! And cell at Lin's house today sat!!!! Oh and we all when to support Joey Chua where she is going to contest in the Final 1 the upcoming wednesday. Haha, interestingly she remembered me even if I had only met her once.

And then there is this girl that every time I thought about her n wanting to meet her simply due to not meeting for months, unsure what events to ask her out, she would suddenly approach me with a plan in mind already, and it often matches mine. Sadly, I was 30mins too late to grab the Phantom of Opera seat just beside me!!! =(


Well, nothing much to talk about, was chatting with a friend through sms. So we were talking about everything under the sun, when we talked about those little mischief we have during our childhood. So we were talking about theft and other teen stuffs, and the came to the conclusion that some of these stuffs rather do it while we are young and the consequences are small than to suppress it to be snowballed into crimes in the future. 

So I was thinking about lust and all related cases. I thought of all those rapist and addicts, could they be better off if they are exposed of them at young age and then rectified, so that they would be totally removed of it?

There's a song "I've never been to me" that talks about a women growing up in the social world, of lust and trends and wild and fun. She had been undressed by kings and see things women not supposed to see. However, in the end, she realized the struggle to forgo this side of her to retreat to a stable kind of love.

As I believed, firstly, with Respect, a man would not do anything to the flesh of a woman. Secondly, with Love, a man would only make love with his spouse, the beautiful act of completion, harmony and acceptance. You are exposed, and willing to let the other half makes you complete. Thirdly, with Self-Control, all lust and sexual desires could be controlled, minimized  displaced.

Then again, what is really the "self", our cells regenerate every day, in 7 years, none of our cells are the same, and the cycle repeats, so what are we?

So if a girl experiences all the bgr stuffs from young, and prepare her for a better, sincere, and stable one in the future. But thats like taking advantage of young girls. Then again, girls might be secretly wanting that too? Then for a guy, can say cant resist, but can switch focus, can distract away from it, can do measures about it, but since didnt then is not sincere in change? Then if 2 parties dont mind, then just let it be lorh...... XD

Let it be... Let it be....

Sigh, sometimes as much as I know so much, but couldnt do anything, pointless also, just hope no one will gets into trouble.

Western culture perhaps? we always have those hollywood romance mindset, or those clubbing lifestyle, grinning, prostitution, and etc, so... rather fake..... hmm........ continuing the song:


Hey, you know what paradise is? It's a lie
A fantasy we create about people and places as we'd like them to be


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