Friday, September 17, 2010

Random thoughts: Firstly, linnet once pondered, why must be always say negative stuffs out of our mouth, like bad mouthing and etc, well not as if we can choose not to. Sometimes just jokingly insult it's alright I think....

She asked, wont we feel hurt, yes i do badly, i may seem happy go lucky, tanker, manly but I'm rather emotional and fragile, but well, its just another pov, why deprive yourselves of happiness just because of few words, our lives are in our hands, we could always have our own stand.

Furthermore, some people is born to insult, it's their unique personality, it's their way of life, I've seen such people. However their insults could be a learning point too, their insults are not plain vulgars, there are some substance inside, just brace it larh. Or it could be that with some insults will have some laughter, will strengthen the bonds...

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Thoughts 2:

Saw this small boy went up to a stage while some program organizer is discussing about the upcoming event, then one of the organizer shouted at the kid to get down, the kid is like just curious what it feels like to be up on stage, thus shocked when shouted at...

Sometimes I think this is how society kills creativity and adventurous spirit of kids, they are always deemed at 'too young' and 'trouble-maker', thus reprimanded at when make mistakes, resulting in them not daring to try...

Kids are inexperienced, the above scenario is a harmless one, but even if its a dire situation, why cant just nicely tell them the consequences or the harmful effects of their actions, if they persist on then punish...

Alot of times I hear mothers telling kids 'Stupid question', 'It's just that way larh, you very noisy leh', 'why so stupid like that also dont know', 'this is common sense'.... feel so raged by it, sometimes have to teach then understand, not everything could be learn from books or people, some mistakes are compulsory to make to grow. Questions like 'why is the sky blue' may seem stupid to a parent but could be an a level project....

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Thoughts 3:

I think the only way globalization truly benefited us is the flow of information...

And the worst is to take away opportunities from young companies...

The worst excuse is to say that the developing countries had increased standards of living, lol the world will eventually progress, thus increase in wages doesnt mean decreasing the gap between rich and poor but vice versa since the rich will benefit even more...

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Thoughts 4:

Watched an anime, it's about a son used to keep fighting with his dad until once his dad permanently damaged his shoulder, since then his father treated him like a stranger, yet the son felt worst, lol i totally think that is the son who had the problem...

Being a stranger relationship had so much benefits:
1) No more fights
2) Will have no expectation of his son to help him
3) Will be more polite and teat well
4) Able to talk as if to a friend
5) More chances to strengthen bond
6) No stereotyping of son being 'immature' and 'dumb'
7) Will not take son failures too seriously but encourage instead
8) Won't nag much
9) Won't keep adding salt to mistakes and ignore successes

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